Saturday, 27 September 2014

Uche Ogbodo Speaks Out on 1 Month Long Marriage and Their 1 Month Old Baby




Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo spoke to Vanguard about why her 1 month long marriage ended. The actress just gave birth to their baby in the US and shares that her ex wasn’t present at all during her pregnancy, blames their breakup on societal influence and his lies.
Here’s an excerpt:
Have you left your husband for real?
The marriage didn’t work out.
Was it really a marriage?
It was a marriage but we didn’t do any wedding. We didn’t do any court marriage or church wedding. We did nothing. We didn’t even do traditional marriage but in my culture, there are many processes to getting married and I did a few of those, so you can say I was married. In Igbo land, there are rites you adhere to before you can say this is my wife and I did a couple of them.
Why did you do the rites in secret?
You cannot do rites openly; it’s just a family thing, family members only. It’s not a traditional wedding. If I had done traditional wedding, I would definitely invite people. If I had done a white wedding, I would have invited people. If I had done a court marriage, I would still have invited people but it was just rites. I didn’t do anything the public needed to know, so you can’t say I did any marriage in secret.
What really made you leave your husband?
My marriage was full of lies. I cannot tell you in detail what those lies were, if that’s what you’re trying to make me do but it was based on lies. It’s a pity it didn’t work out. I didn’t go into the marriage to crash it. I wanted a family; I wanted a loving home and a loving husband. That was why I went into it in the first place but as nature would have it, I didn’t get any of those. I still thank God my head is intact
Did he cheat on you? What exactly did he do?
No, it’s not about women. Like I always say, you cannot build a home on sinking sand. You need to build a home on a rock. What I mean is that a marriage built on deceit and lies is no marriage at all. If you want a solid marriage, it must be built on honesty and trustworthiness. If not, it’s definitely going to crash. If it doesn’t crash today, it will crash tomorrow, so the lies are my reasons.
When did you discover he was lying to you?
Well, it was good while it lasted; he was a good man to me. I felt all I saw was all I was supposed to see but later when one thing led to another and things started unfolding. I started finding out that everything was not what it seemed. Every relationship, you have problems in-between, there is no relationship that just goes on smoothly.
In the process of friendship and dating, we had issues that we resolved but when we took it to the next level we just couldn’t hold it together. There are things you can hide as friends but as married couple it is impossible because so many other things like families are involved.
As his girlfriend some things that were hidden were revealed when I became his wife. What happened between me and my husband is between me and my husband. We caused it, both of us caused it.
For how long were you guys together?
The marriage lasted barely a month before we started having issues. We were having issues before I found out I was pregnant.
Are you planning to raise your child as a single mother?
When I don’t have a husband, I’m raising her alone. I can’t throw my child away. It’s not her fault that the marriage didn’t work out, it’s not her fault that I got pregnant, it’s not her fault that we didn’t take our marriage seriously, so I’m going to raise her no matter what happens.
How old is she now?
She’s a month and two weeks now.
What attracted you to your husband before you married him?
I saw something in him that nobody had ever seen. I saw a man that was a good man inside his heart. It’s not like when you’re looking at him everything is perfect but I saw that deep down somewhere, there’s a good man. Without the influence of society, he would have been different. I blame it on society and I blame it on him. He allowed things to influence but he was born a good man and I thought I could bring that goodness out in him. I thought that I could change something and make it better. I tried but it didn’t work out.
Was it completely his fault that your marriage crashed?
It’s our fault. We shouldn’t have allowed our marriage to crash. I wouldn’t know my mistakes; he would tell you my mistakes. Maybe I was a little too much to handle, maybe that’s why but I wouldn’t know until he tells you his own side of the story.
Some people were saying you got into the marriage because of money?
I didn’t get into the marriage because of money in the first place. I got into the marriage because I wanted to be married and because I saw something in him that I felt would work out for me later in life. I didn’t go into it because of money; there were no millions to spend so it wasn’t about money. I don’t care what people say. What matters is the truth and I try to be very straightforward when I deal with people. So, it wasn’t about money because there was none
Others are saying you left him because of his brain tumor?
He doesn’t have brain tumor. He was sick at the time, he had issues but his sickness is not the reason why our marriage crashed. Money was not the issue either. I would definitely know about his health status before I would marry a man. I knew what I was going into, so how could I just leave a man because he had a brain tumor? It’s funny.
You said he didn’t have a brain tumor, what was really wrong with him?
I cannot tell you, he would tell you. He was sick, he was treated but it had nothing to do with the brain. He had surgery but it was not brain tumor, it was not cancer, he was just sick and I thank God that he’s alive. I don’t know why people just wake up and conclude things out of the blue; you don’t know these people from Adam, you just read about people and then you go and comment rubbish. You write rubbish to tear people’s lives apart even when you know nothing about their issues.
Is he still in hospital?
He’s not in hospital; he has never been in the hospital. I don’t know why that picture came up, that picture you saw online was taken like last year December
Was your husband with you when you were pregnant?
No, he wasn’t. We were having issues, we weren’t together. He didn’t see me pregnant for one day.
If you’re going to marry again, what would you do differently to make it work out?
I’m only going to keep praying to God to give me someone who wouldn’t lie to me, someone that would be plain, very plain to me.
Are you still planning to marry again?
I’ve left the door open. I’m not going to close the door of marriage because one marriage didn’t work. The door is wide open. When I find someone that I’m going to be happy with but I wouldn’t want another experience where my marriage crashes because once beaten twice shy. So I’m going to take my time now and dig deep.
Interview Source: Vanguard



























































Amber Rose’s Leaked Nud*s (Warning! Must Be 18 Or Older To View)

In honor of Amber Rose divorcing Wiz Khalifah here is a throwback post of when Amber Rose leaked her nudes.
CLICK HERE TO VIEW FULL PICS (18+ ONLY)

ROONEY becomes 3rd highest BPL

ROONEY becomes 3rd highest Barclays premier league goal scorer as he puts MAN UTD 1-0 up v WEST HAM.

ALL-TIME TOP  BARCLAYS PREMIER LEAGUE SCORERS:
 1 - Shearer 260
 2 - Cole 187
 3 - Rooney 176
 4 - Henry 175
 5 - Lampard 172

CNPP Accuses NYSC Of Extortion, Urges Students To Protest The N4,000 Charge


The Chairman of the Conference of Nigerian Political Parties (CNPP) in Bayelsa State, Lucky Akpeli, today said the N4,000 charged prospective corps members by the authorities of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) to obtain call-up letters is "outright extortion."
NYSC Akpeli said the collection of money from hapless Nigerian graduates to serve their father land was uncalled for, and called on the NYSC to reverse the decision as it was unpopular and inimical to the well-being of the country. "Any Federal Government agency that collects N4,000 from Nigerian youth to serve their father land is unpatriotic," he said. "The Federal Government should as a matter of fact reverse the decision."
He said no agency of the Federal Government, including the NYSC, should take advantage of citizens, and said he would not be surprised if Nigerian students took to the streets to resist the decision.
"It is likely that Nigerian students will resist it," he furthered. "In fact, I am calling on Nigerian students to stand up against this kind of decision."

Cameroonian Military Capture Boko Haram’s Top Commander, Abakar Ali

Abakar Ali who also goes by name "Mustapher Umar" was caught with 5 machine guns, 14 rifles, 24 rockets, 4 rocket launchers, 6  Kalashnikovs, 60 Kalashnikovs magazines, 4 automatic pistols , over 500 9mm ammunition, 469 12.7mm ammunition, 4,454 7.62 mm ammunition, 1,491 5.56 mm ammunition, 822 ammunition of 7.62 mm, 6 grenades, 28 rocket launcher chargers and other weaponized accesories like pincers, tweezers and knives.
 A mid-level Nigerian military officer, who is serving with a multi-national force that operates around the Nigeria-Cameroon border, revealed the information to SaharaReporters via telephone. He disclosed that Cameroonian soldiers nabbed Mr. Ali along with two other Boko Haram fighters in Kousseri, a town in northern Cameroon.

Our source described Mr. Ali as the insurgent commander who has been leading the Islamist sect’s attacks around the border towns between Nigeria and Cameroon. He added that the arrested insurgent shuttled between various Boko Haram camps in the area and organized deadly attacks that targeted mostly civilians.

The Nigerian officer stated that the Cameroonian military was expected to share intelligence with their Nigerian counterparts regarding any confessions made by the captured terrorist during interrogation. He added that Nigerian security agencies are likely to learn more about Mr. Ali’s linkages with others in Boko Haram’s cells in Nigeria's northeast area.

Lagos State Government yesterday constituted a Coroner Inquest to unravel the cause of the incident that led to the collapsed building within the premises of the Synagogue Church of All Nations at Ikotun Egbe, Lagos and the several deaths that followed.
The state Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice, Mr. Ade Ipaye who constituted the Coroner court in line with the provisions of the Lagos State Coroner’s System Law No. 7 of 2007, noted it will investigate the cause and circumstances of deaths and bring his findings and recommendations to the appropriate authorities. The Coroner court is expected to commence sitting from next week at the premise of the Ikeja High Court.
The government of the  South Africa which lost several of her citizens  as well as Lagosians, have been mounting pressures on the government to constitute an inquiry into the cause of the incident, to establish a claim by the founder of the church, Prophet T. B. Joshua that the structure was a target of terrorism.
Section 15 of the Coroner Law  provides that a Coroner “shall hold an inquest whenever he is informed that the death of a deceased person lying within his Coroner District was as a result of a violent, unnatural or suspicious occurrence.”
In a statement by the Public Relation Officer of the Ministry of Justice, Mrs. Bola Akingbade, quoting the Attorney General, said, “In doing this, he (Coroner) has all the powers of a magistrate to summon and compel the attendance of witnesses, including medical examiners, and require them to give evidence, produce documents or present other relevant materials.”
Ipaye said further, “The Law requires the verdict of a Coroner as certified in writing to be forwarded to the State Attorney General and such verdict may form the basis of criminal prosecutions depending on the evidence collected.
“The Coroner in this case is Magistrate O. A. Komolafe, who also sat as Coroner in the Dana Air Crash case. He is expected to announce his sitting/visitation schedules and other details and to hold the inquest at the premises of the High Court of Lagos State, Oba Akinjobi Way, Ikeja.”  Ipaye noted.
Synagogue: We were never served  contravention notice — Church
The synagogue
Church of all Nations has refuted newspaper reports that it ignored contravention notice served on it by the Lagos State Building Control Agency ( LSBCA) over the collapse of one of the church’ s guest houses.
According to the church, it neither received a contravention notice nor was the building in question ever sealed off before the unfortunate incident, adding that at no time was any stop work notice or directive served on the church or pasted on the building prior to the September 12,2014 incident.
The church said the only form of communication with the LSBCA occurred days after the incident.
According to the church, “ the letters that were written to the church were written after the collapse in the following order:
A letter dated September 16, 2014 with Ref No. LASBCA/AL/PCA/DH/01 requesting for the submission of a development permit and approval of structures within the church complex, four days after the building collapsed. – a  Contravention notice dated September 17, 2014 Ref No. AL/LASBCA/DH/PCA/CN 06 alleging certain contraventions, five days after the building collapsed.  – another  Letter dated September 17, 2014 with Ref No. AL/LASBCA/DH/PCA/CN 06 requesting for non-destructive tests for structural stability, five days after the building collapsed”. The church further noted that no sealing or quit notice has been served as the building never called for such.
“In the above circumstances, we would like to believe that LSBCA had been quoted out of context with the motive of destroying the ongoing investigation into the case as well as casting doubt on the position of the church that the collapse was due to an attack”.
As Lagos begins identification of recovered bodies
To ensure proper forensic identification including DNA analysis of the bodies recovered from the site of the collapsed building inside the premises of the Synagogue of All Nations, SCOAN,  Lagos State Government yesterday commenced the identification of recovered bodies by calling on family members and all Nationals who believe their relations could have been trapped in the collapsed building to come forward and submit samples that can aid forensic identification and DNA analysis of the bodies.
Lagos State Commissioner for Health, Dr. Jide Idris who spoke in his office stated that the State government has considered it necessary to start forensic identification and DNA analysis of the recovered bodies in view of the need to identify each of them.
Idris further appealed to family members especially parents, children and siblings of Nationals who believe their relations could have been in the collapsed building to visit the Department of Forensic Medicine at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, LASUTH, Ikeja from yesterday, Friday 26th September, 2014 to submit samples.
The Commissioner explained that those eligible to give samples for the forensic identification and DNA analysis in order of preference include; parents, children and siblings of the deceased.
- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/09/synagogue-church-lagos-constitutes-coroner-court/#sthash.Ly9Fvlpo.dpuf
Lagos State Government yesterday constituted a Coroner Inquest to unravel the cause of the incident that led to the collapsed building within the premises of the Synagogue Church of All Nations at Ikotun Egbe, Lagos and the several deaths that followed.
The state Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice, Mr. Ade Ipaye who constituted the Coroner court in line with the provisions of the Lagos State Coroner’s System Law No. 7 of 2007, noted it will investigate the cause and circumstances of deaths and bring his findings and recommendations to the appropriate authorities. The Coroner court is expected to commence sitting from next week at the premise of the Ikeja High Court.
The government of the  South Africa which lost several of her citizens  as well as Lagosians, have been mounting pressures on the government to constitute an inquiry into the cause of the incident, to establish a claim by the founder of the church, Prophet T. B. Joshua that the structure was a target of terrorism.
Section 15 of the Coroner Law  provides that a Coroner “shall hold an inquest whenever he is informed that the death of a deceased person lying within his Coroner District was as a result of a violent, unnatural or suspicious occurrence.”
In a statement by the Public Relation Officer of the Ministry of Justice, Mrs. Bola Akingbade, quoting the Attorney General, said, “In doing this, he (Coroner) has all the powers of a magistrate to summon and compel the attendance of witnesses, including medical examiners, and require them to give evidence, produce documents or present other relevant materials.”
Ipaye said further, “The Law requires the verdict of a Coroner as certified in writing to be forwarded to the State Attorney General and such verdict may form the basis of criminal prosecutions depending on the evidence collected.
“The Coroner in this case is Magistrate O. A. Komolafe, who also sat as Coroner in the Dana Air Crash case. He is expected to announce his sitting/visitation schedules and other details and to hold the inquest at the premises of the High Court of Lagos State, Oba Akinjobi Way, Ikeja.”  Ipaye noted.
Synagogue: We were never served  contravention notice — Church
The synagogue
Church of all Nations has refuted newspaper reports that it ignored contravention notice served on it by the Lagos State Building Control Agency ( LSBCA) over the collapse of one of the church’ s guest houses.
According to the church, it neither received a contravention notice nor was the building in question ever sealed off before the unfortunate incident, adding that at no time was any stop work notice or directive served on the church or pasted on the building prior to the September 12,2014 incident.
The church said the only form of communication with the LSBCA occurred days after the incident.
According to the church, “ the letters that were written to the church were written after the collapse in the following order:
A letter dated September 16, 2014 with Ref No. LASBCA/AL/PCA/DH/01 requesting for the submission of a development permit and approval of structures within the church complex, four days after the building collapsed. – a  Contravention notice dated September 17, 2014 Ref No. AL/LASBCA/DH/PCA/CN 06 alleging certain contraventions, five days after the building collapsed.  – another  Letter dated September 17, 2014 with Ref No. AL/LASBCA/DH/PCA/CN 06 requesting for non-destructive tests for structural stability, five days after the building collapsed”. The church further noted that no sealing or quit notice has been served as the building never called for such.
“In the above circumstances, we would like to believe that LSBCA had been quoted out of context with the motive of destroying the ongoing investigation into the case as well as casting doubt on the position of the church that the collapse was due to an attack”.
As Lagos begins identification of recovered bodies
To ensure proper forensic identification including DNA analysis of the bodies recovered from the site of the collapsed building inside the premises of the Synagogue of All Nations, SCOAN,  Lagos State Government yesterday commenced the identification of recovered bodies by calling on family members and all Nationals who believe their relations could have been trapped in the collapsed building to come forward and submit samples that can aid forensic identification and DNA analysis of the bodies.
Lagos State Commissioner for Health, Dr. Jide Idris who spoke in his office stated that the State government has considered it necessary to start forensic identification and DNA analysis of the recovered bodies in view of the need to identify each of them.
Idris further appealed to family members especially parents, children and siblings of Nationals who believe their relations could have been in the collapsed building to visit the Department of Forensic Medicine at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, LASUTH, Ikeja from yesterday, Friday 26th September, 2014 to submit samples.
The Commissioner explained that those eligible to give samples for the forensic identification and DNA analysis in order of preference include; parents, children and siblings of the deceased.
- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/09/synagogue-church-lagos-constitutes-coroner-court/#sthash.Ly9Fvlpo.dpuf
Lagos State Government yesterday constituted a Coroner Inquest to unravel the cause of the incident that led to the collapsed building within the premises of the Synagogue Church of All Nations at Ikotun Egbe, Lagos and the several deaths that followed.
The state Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice, Mr. Ade Ipaye who constituted the Coroner court in line with the provisions of the Lagos State Coroner’s System Law No. 7 of 2007, noted it will investigate the cause and circumstances of deaths and bring his findings and recommendations to the appropriate authorities. The Coroner court is expected to commence sitting from next week at the premise of the Ikeja High Court.
The government of the  South Africa which lost several of her citizens  as well as Lagosians, have been mounting pressures on the government to constitute an inquiry into the cause of the incident, to establish a claim by the founder of the church, Prophet T. B. Joshua that the structure was a target of terrorism.
Section 15 of the Coroner Law  provides that a Coroner “shall hold an inquest whenever he is informed that the death of a deceased person lying within his Coroner District was as a result of a violent, unnatural or suspicious occurrence.”
In a statement by the Public Relation Officer of the Ministry of Justice, Mrs. Bola Akingbade, quoting the Attorney General, said, “In doing this, he (Coroner) has all the powers of a magistrate to summon and compel the attendance of witnesses, including medical examiners, and require them to give evidence, produce documents or present other relevant materials.”
Ipaye said further, “The Law requires the verdict of a Coroner as certified in writing to be forwarded to the State Attorney General and such verdict may form the basis of criminal prosecutions depending on the evidence collected.
“The Coroner in this case is Magistrate O. A. Komolafe, who also sat as Coroner in the Dana Air Crash case. He is expected to announce his sitting/visitation schedules and other details and to hold the inquest at the premises of the High Court of Lagos State, Oba Akinjobi Way, Ikeja.”  Ipaye noted.
Synagogue: We were never served  contravention notice — Church
The synagogue
Church of all Nations has refuted newspaper reports that it ignored contravention notice served on it by the Lagos State Building Control Agency ( LSBCA) over the collapse of one of the church’ s guest houses.
According to the church, it neither received a contravention notice nor was the building in question ever sealed off before the unfortunate incident, adding that at no time was any stop work notice or directive served on the church or pasted on the building prior to the September 12,2014 incident.
The church said the only form of communication with the LSBCA occurred days after the incident.
According to the church, “ the letters that were written to the church were written after the collapse in the following order:
A letter dated September 16, 2014 with Ref No. LASBCA/AL/PCA/DH/01 requesting for the submission of a development permit and approval of structures within the church complex, four days after the building collapsed. – a  Contravention notice dated September 17, 2014 Ref No. AL/LASBCA/DH/PCA/CN 06 alleging certain contraventions, five days after the building collapsed.  – another  Letter dated September 17, 2014 with Ref No. AL/LASBCA/DH/PCA/CN 06 requesting for non-destructive tests for structural stability, five days after the building collapsed”. The church further noted that no sealing or quit notice has been served as the building never called for such.
“In the above circumstances, we would like to believe that LSBCA had been quoted out of context with the motive of destroying the ongoing investigation into the case as well as casting doubt on the position of the church that the collapse was due to an attack”.
As Lagos begins identification of recovered bodies
To ensure proper forensic identification including DNA analysis of the bodies recovered from the site of the collapsed building inside the premises of the Synagogue of All Nations, SCOAN,  Lagos State Government yesterday commenced the identification of recovered bodies by calling on family members and all Nationals who believe their relations could have been trapped in the collapsed building to come forward and submit samples that can aid forensic identification and DNA analysis of the bodies.
Lagos State Commissioner for Health, Dr. Jide Idris who spoke in his office stated that the State government has considered it necessary to start forensic identification and DNA analysis of the recovered bodies in view of the need to identify each of them.
Idris further appealed to family members especially parents, children and siblings of Nationals who believe their relations could have been in the collapsed building to visit the Department of Forensic Medicine at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, LASUTH, Ikeja from yesterday, Friday 26th September, 2014 to submit samples.
The Commissioner explained that those eligible to give samples for the forensic identification and DNA analysis in order of preference include; parents, children and siblings of the deceased.
- See more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/09/synagogue-church-lagos-constitutes-coroner-court/#sthash.Ly9Fvlpo.dpuf

9ice says he plans to quit music for politics

In an interview with Sun News, 9ice says he plans to quit music to concentrate fully on politics because he can't be singing at 35. He can't? What he said below...

Yes, I want to leave music for politics. Next year January, I will be 35-years-old and I’m not praying to still be in music at that age. I am serious about politics now. If you listen to my music, you would notice that politics has been part of me; it’s in my blood. When I started initially, I talked about being your brother’s keeper, and that’s why I studied Law at Lagos State University before I dropped out to concentrate on my music career. I hate when things go wrong. When two or three people are having issues, I love to get there to settle their differences. I have passion for politics and it has always been in my blood."
If you go fully into politics, most of your friends and fans will miss you?
I will say they will love me more by the time they see the plans that I have for them. I have so many plans on my mind. Imagine if the late Fela Anikulapo-Kuti was a politician, he will not just criticize the mistakes of our leaders but also correct them. Imagine if Wole Soyinka was to be the president of this nation, people like him are only preaching the truth and criticising the government but they are not ready to get into politics to make corrections. I am tired of preaching, I want to contribute my own quota for the sake of my people. We have graduates riding commercial motorcycles (okada), selling meat etc, their certificates are not being used but they are shouting that the government is not doing well. There can’t be any change if the youths don’t stand-up now to do something to help the country.

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