If you’re thinking of asking your girlfriend to
become your wife, deciding if you’re ready to make the commitment to
marriage is only half the battle.
You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in
your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day
out. Love alone is not enough to make a marriage work, and certain
characteristics are warning signs for a troubled marriage down the road.
Here are some of the most obvious signs that your girlfriend is not
marriage material.
- She cuts you off from loved ones
A girlfriend who always becomes sick when it’s
time to spend quality time with your family and even forbids you from
hanging out with your friends will only act worse after you say your
vows.
- She bails on you when times get tough
Life isn’t always a bowl of cherries, but that
doesn’t mean that the woman in your life should just disappear when the
times get tough. If your girlfriend is not supportive of you emotionally
through difficult times and only stands by you when things are going
good, she’s not the one you should be walking down the aisle with.
- She displays psychotic behaviors
A woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding and
insanity might not be the best person to swear your undying loyalty to.
If she displays severe psychological problems now, imagine what kind of
influence her crazy and irrational behaviors will have on your future.
Marrying a woman like this will most likely ruin your life and your
perception of women forever.
- She’s too clingy:
If your girlfriend can’t go anywhere or do
anything without you, calls you twenty times a day and destroys any
chance of you missing her because because the two of you are never
apart, she’s going to make a bad wife.
- She has nothing going on for herself:
You should want to marry a woman who has goals
and brings something better to your life, not one who is up to her neck
in debt, has no income, displays unpredictable behaviors and has tried
numerous, short-lived career paths yet never knows what she wants in
life. This type of fickle lifestyle could derail your own life plan as
well.
- She’s controlling
If your girlfriend controls all of your
conversations, constantly forces you into agreeing with her and acts as
an overbearing, emotional bully, it’ll only get worse after you say “I
do.”
- She’s already cheated on you
Do you honestly believe that a woman is marriage
material if she has been unfaithful to you while you were dating? Yes, a
person can always change and learn from their mistakes; however, a
cheating girlfriend will more than likely continue to be unfaithful
after marriage.
- Her libido doesn’t match yours
Another sign that she’ll make a bad wife is if
her libido differs wildly from yours. The way you relate to each other
in the bedroom has a big influence on whether the two of you will stay
together after wedding vows are exchanged, so it’s best to work this out
before you walk down the aisle.
- She’s extremely jealous
Although a little bit of jealousy is essential
for a healthy relationship, extreme jealousy arises in a relationship
because of high levels of insecurity. If your girlfriend is jealous of
every girl who comes near you, refuses to accept that you have female
friends and feels threatened when you discuss your previous
relationships, putting a ring on her finger is not going to make her
more secure.
- She can’t admit when she’s wrong
If she always seems to have the upper hand in
arguments, refuses to admit her faults or even treat you as an equal,
she’s not the marrying kind.
Source: Date360
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